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The Wounded Warrior Wives
The Wounded Warrior Wives is a groundbreaking investigative project that exposes the hidden crisis of domestic violence within America’s military communities. Built on the trust of six families who allowed their daughters’ lives and murders to be documented with dignity, this work blends survivor testimony, years of research, expert interviews, and the lived experience of a former military spouse who became collateral damage in a war she never enlisted to fight.
This project reveals what life inside the military truly looks like behind the ceremonies, uniforms, and hero narratives. It confronts the disorienting reality faced by spouses whose abusers are simultaneously celebrated as warfighters. It shows how the system protects the service member at all costs—often at the expense of the women and children living in their homes.
Through the stories of six murdered women, The Wounded Warrior Wives exposes the institutional failures that allow abuse to escalate unchecked: inadequate mental health support for combat veterans, recruiting practices that overlook red flags, and a culture that discourages help seeking while enabling dangerous behavior to hide behind service.
Readers walk away with a deeper understanding of how the residue of war impacts families for generations, why so many victims feel trapped, and how urgent reform is needed to save lives, prevent suicide among service members, and rebuild a system that protects—not endangers—the people it claims to serve.
This is not just a book. It is a call to action for military families, policymakers, advocates, and every American who believes that no woman or child should become collateral damage.


Hello, I'm Tressa
Tressa Brady is a nationally recognized expert on domestic violence in military and first responder families, and a trusted advocate for victims’ families across the country. She is the creator and host of The Wounds That Do Not Heal, a podcast featuring leading experts on coercive control, narcissistic abuse, PTSD, traumatic brain injuries, military whistleblowers, and more. A survivor, speaker, and writer with her debut book forthcoming, Tressa blends investigative journalism with trauma informed interviewing to ensure victims’ families are heard with accuracy, dignity, and care. Her work exposes the systemic failures that allow women and children to be harmed or killed and pushes for meaningful reform and stronger mental health support for service members and veterans.


Tressa on an expert panel at Fordham Law School, speaking on best practices for journalists interviewing trauma survivors. The panel included leading voices advocating for the release of the Epstein files, trafficking subjectmatter experts, and a Pulitzer Prize–winning Wall Street Journal journalist who moderated the discussion.

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Podcast
The Wounds That Do Not Heal
In The Wounds That Do Not Heal, host Tressa Brady exposes the realities of domestic violence in military and first responder families through raw, survivor-centered storytelling. Each week, she shares the story of a woman whose life was taken by domestic violence — and the systems that failed her. Tressa also speaks with leading experts on coercive control, narcissistic abuse, PTSD, traumatic brain injury, military whistleblowing, and victims' families, breaking down the hidden dynamics that endanger those closest to service. The podcast offers a safe space for learning, reflection, and awareness — providing resources, insight, and a deeper understanding of the urgent need for reform.


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